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I Am My Own Recruiter: Owning Your Path to the Offer

May 11, 20251 min read

I Am My Own Recruiter: Owning Your Path to the Offer

Inspired by Tony Stark

“I am Iron Man.” -Tony Stark

Tony Stark never waited for someone to hand him a title. He created it. He built the suit. He built the future. And when it mattered most, he stood in front of the world and said the words that defined everything he believed in:

“I am Iron Man.”

Student-athletes must adopt the same mentality during the recruiting process.

Waiting for a call, a post, or an invitation is not a strategy. It is a stall.

To win in recruiting today, you must declare it for yourself:

I am my own recruiter.

You are the one building the brand.

You are the one emailing coaches.

You are the one training, filming, editing, and preparing.

You are the one reviewing GPA, coursework, and eligibility.

You are the one showing up, again and again.

Ownership is not optional. It is the edge.

Coaches recruit the athlete who owns their communication, their development, and their future. No one is coming to save you. They are coming to see you and only if you make yourself visible.

You do not need permission. You need purpose.

You are the brand. You are the captain. You are the strategy.

You are the recruiter.

🧠 Game Plan Takeaway:

The earlier you accept full responsibility for your recruiting journey, the faster things move. Confidence does not wait for validation, it shows up and introduces itself.

Founder of Facilitate The Process | Athletic Recruiting Strategist | Sports Marketing Pro

Anthony Washington is the founder of Facilitate The Process, a tech-driven recruiting platform that empowers student-athletes, coaches, and parents to navigate college recruiting with confidence. With over 20 years of experience in sports management, marketing, and athlete development, Anthony brings a unique blend of strategy, innovation, and mentorship to the world of college athletics. When he's not helping athletes get noticed, he's building systems to make the recruiting process easier, faster, and more impactful for everyone involved.

Coach Anthony

Founder of Facilitate The Process | Athletic Recruiting Strategist | Sports Marketing Pro Anthony Washington is the founder of Facilitate The Process, a tech-driven recruiting platform that empowers student-athletes, coaches, and parents to navigate college recruiting with confidence. With over 20 years of experience in sports management, marketing, and athlete development, Anthony brings a unique blend of strategy, innovation, and mentorship to the world of college athletics. When he's not helping athletes get noticed, he's building systems to make the recruiting process easier, faster, and more impactful for everyone involved.

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